This trend continued in my adult life, with employers asking me to “take one for the team” and “play well with others” even while admitting that the “ others” in question were not pulling their weight. No wonder I hate company picnics, which combine the worst of both gym class and the workplace in one endless afternoon of trust falls and soggy pasta salad. (Remember those WNDs from here? I identified the fuck out of “I want to make my own decisions” and held it close when I quit my corporate job to work for myself.) So what does this deep dive into my antisocial, uncoordinated, uncooperative past have to do with you? Well, if you didn’t decide to skip this chapter when you read the title, then I’m guessing you and I are two of a kind—peas in a pod, except both of us would rather have the pod to ourselves. I’ll further wager that if you bought the book in the first place, you could use a little help asserting your individuality. Fair to say? Well, sometimes the best way to escape Lowest 【植髮前後大不同？】談植髮成功率與植髮心得- Common Denominator Living is to remove the “common” part altogether and do it your way from the get-go. Lucky for you, I am now a certified expert in doing things my way. Here’s how it works: First, you have to stop giving a fuck about what other people think. I went into great detail on this in my first book, and for the sake of readers who’ve already mastered NGAF and the NotSorry Method, I don’t want to repeat myself too much, but essentially this entails worrying only about what you can control (your own behavior) and not about what you can’t (other people’s opinions). Go ahead and record stats from the sidelines or install yourself rigid and unmoving at backcourt like it’s fucking Easter Island. Your teammates will get over it. Don’t spend your time and energy worrying about what people will think about you “doing it your way.” Just do it. (The key is not to be an asshole while doing it. I gave a * twelve-minute TEDx talk on this. Treat yo’self.